We are just friends..

... which is totally cool ... ... u n t i l ... ... "just" becomes "jusssstttt". That extra emphasis on just. Damn. It can actually drive you crazy. Why would someone do that ? Is the guy blind that he won't see the different between her and her "just friends" ? I mean honestly, I sympathize with the guy whose girlfriend's have these so called "just friends". Friends are totally cool, but "just friends" ??

There are many brilliant theories to resolve the "just friends problem". One of the algorithms, is the simple "you do this, i do it too" algorithm. You know the tit for tat algorithm. But the thing is that, this tit for tat algorithm doesn't work with women. Why? Because, forget tit and tat, she has tit and tit.. which by the way.. can get you a lot of very very good, "just friends".

So we still don't have the " 'jussssttt' justification problem" solved. The question however, is not how do we solve this problem? It is, How much do you want the relationship? Because that is what everything depends on. If you don't really want it, then do hell with it. On the other hand, if you want it to go on, you gotta adjust. Gotta take it as its coming. Take it for a while, and hope that there is mutual understanding to resolve the issue. But then, there's a limit to everything. Beyond a point, anything can snap, isn't it ?

Some of us back @ uni... the fun days...